Kate Wicker

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What Love Looks Like

Today I received a comment and a link to a post with a very powerful picture. (If you’re of the “body is impure” mindset, this photo and my blog probably aren’t the places for you.)

It’s rare for a yammering, writing gal like myself to be at a loss for words, but seeing this mother with her child rendered me speechless. It also made me feel foolish for ever succumbing to body angst when I should be singing God’s praises that my children and I are healthy.

The next time you feel fat or have a bad hair day or wonder what God designed your body for, look at this photo of an innocent child resting on her mother.

“This is what my cancer looks like,” the beautiful mom writes beneath the picture.

This is also what love looks like.

On a similar subject, I write about turning our sorrows over to Mary here.

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· July 29, 2008 · Tagged With: Suffering · Filed Under: Perspective

Comments

  1. bits of myself says

    July 29, 2008 at 2:41 pm

    thank you again, kate!

  2. Maria says

    July 29, 2008 at 4:55 pm

    Wow! I put a link to her blog on my blog…working on blogs. I’m sitting at my desk all teary eyed!

  3. Cathy Adamkiewicz says

    July 29, 2008 at 11:32 pm

    This is so beautiful. I took a look at her blog and found the other pictures of her nursing her little girl. How touching and amazing. I thought of her all day…offering prayers for her continued healing.

  4. Jen says

    July 29, 2008 at 11:48 pm

    Whoa. I am not usually an emotional person, but that moved me to tears.

  5. Jennifer says

    August 1, 2008 at 2:26 am

    What a beautiful picture…brought me to tears.

Hi, I’m Kate

I’m a wife, mom of five kids, writer, speaker, storyteller, bibliophile, runner, eating disorder survivor, and perfectionist in recovery. I'm the author of Getting Past Perfect: Finding Joy & Grace in the Messiness of Motherhood  and Weightless: Making Peace With Your Body.

I’ve tried a lot of things in my life – anorexia, bulimia, law school, teaching aerobics, extended breastfeeding, vegetarianism, trying to be perfect and failing miserably at it – and through it all I’ve been writing. And learning to embrace the messiness of life instead of covering it up, making excuses for it, or being ashamed of my brokenness or my home’s sticky counters.

Nowadays I’m striving every single, imperfect day to strike a balance between keeping it real and keeping it joyful.

 

“She could never be a saint, but she thought she could be a martyr if they killed her quick.”

―Flannery O'Connor

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