Kate Wicker

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Second Sunday of Advent

Light two purple candles, and sing O Come, O Come Emmanuel (if you’re not the caroling types, feel free to play your favorite recording of the song).

Also, Kris Chatfield, a friend of mine from church and my homeschooling co-op shared this wonderful Advent tradition her family has with me:

“My parents always did this with us during Advent, and it’s one of my best family memories. Each Sunday at dinner, we would each draw someone else’s name and keep it a secret. You are that person’s ‘Secret Santa’ (for lack of a better term! Maybe, secret angel would be a better name) for the week. The idea is to do special things for this person that don’t involve money or things out of the ordinary. For instance, make your brother’s bed when he’s eating breakfast, so it’s done without him knowing. Do your brother’s chore for him that day without him finding out. Empty the dishwasher for Mom without her seeing. You get the idea. The next Sunday, we reveal who we had and draw new names. It really gets the kids thinking about doing things for each other and for us, and they start getting very creative by the end of Advent!”

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· December 7, 2008 · Tagged With: Advent · Filed Under: Kate's Blog

Hi, I’m Kate

I’m a wife, mom of five kids, writer, speaker, storyteller, bibliophile, runner, eating disorder survivor, and perfectionist in recovery. I'm the author of Getting Past Perfect: Finding Joy & Grace in the Messiness of Motherhood  and Weightless: Making Peace With Your Body.

I’ve tried a lot of things in my life – anorexia, bulimia, law school, teaching aerobics, extended breastfeeding, vegetarianism, trying to be perfect and failing miserably at it – and through it all I’ve been writing. And learning to embrace the messiness of life instead of covering it up, making excuses for it, or being ashamed of my brokenness or my home’s sticky counters.

Nowadays I’m striving every single, imperfect day to strike a balance between keeping it real and keeping it joyful.

 

“She could never be a saint, but she thought she could be a martyr if they killed her quick.”

―Flannery O'Connor

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