Kate Wicker

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For Better or Worse

Preschooler: Mommy, I’m not going to get married, you know.

Me:
Why not?

Preschooler:
Because I don’t want to leave you and Daddy. Ever.

Such sweet sentiments. Too bad she won’t believe she ever uttered these words when and if (a mom can hope) she’s one day consumed by boy craziness. Or when she decides to tie the knot with a Kalamata olive. Shortly after this conversation, she announced after stealing a few Kalamata olives from my Greek salad that she loved olives and might marry one someday.

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· January 8, 2009 · · Filed Under: Child 1, Tales from the Trenches

Comments

  1. Kris says

    January 8, 2009 at 9:02 pm

    Jordan swears he’s living at home forever, too!

  2. Aubrey says

    January 11, 2009 at 5:28 am

    My five year old Madeleine says the same thing!

    Then one week she was on a “what happens to us if you die” kick. Evidently, my answers for that weren’t enough, because then it was, “what if both you and Daddy die,” then, “what if you and Daddy and Grandpa and Grandma and (so on and so on) die?” I told her then she’d probably go to live with one of my friends. She thought about that for a second and said, “I want to go live at Maria’s house.”

    Sorry for rambling. :)

Hi, I’m Kate

I’m a wife, mom of five kids, writer, speaker, storyteller, bibliophile, runner, eating disorder survivor, and perfectionist in recovery. I'm the author of Getting Past Perfect: Finding Joy & Grace in the Messiness of Motherhood  and Weightless: Making Peace With Your Body.

I’ve tried a lot of things in my life – anorexia, bulimia, law school, teaching aerobics, extended breastfeeding, vegetarianism, trying to be perfect and failing miserably at it – and through it all I’ve been writing. And learning to embrace the messiness of life instead of covering it up, making excuses for it, or being ashamed of my brokenness or my home’s sticky counters.

Nowadays I’m striving every single, imperfect day to strike a balance between keeping it real and keeping it joyful.

 

“She could never be a saint, but she thought she could be a martyr if they killed her quick.”

―Flannery O'Connor

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