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Small Successes 4

1. I’ve exercised every day this week. I’m not talking maniacal elliptical training or marathon sweat sessions. I’ve simply moved my body for at least 30 minutes and each time I’ve felt thankful for its response to the physical activity. Exercise reminds me of all that I’m capable of – even as a tired, 8-month pregger, and of my strength. I realized that this is why I enjoy regularly breaking a sweat. It’s not really because I want to look a certain way or to be swimsuit-ready (although there was time in my life when this was certainly the case). It’s because it reminds me that my body is a gift from God and that I am healthy and alive. In fact, I often find that exercise is as good for the soul as it is for the body.

2. My prenatal appointment had to be changed this Tuesday, and it was now going to fall right in middle of Rachel Marie’s naptime. I’d planned on bringing the girls with me as I usually do, but I swallowed (and nearly chocked on my pride; there’s a reason I have “Lord, keep me humble” posted at the top of this blog) and asked for help. I got it and was so grateful, especially when I ended up being at my midwife’s office for two hours. A tired toddler and antsy preschooler would not a peaceful two-hour appointment make.

3. The kids and I made it to daily Mass in the past week.

Honestly, I had a hard time coming up with any successes for this edition – not because it’s been a particularly bad week, but I’ve just felt like I’ve been going through the motions and not doing anything all that worthy of kudos. But mothering can be like that. It’s usually not ostentatious (unless your child’s having a meltdown in aisle five). Instead, we’re just quietly making our family’s world turn.

Maybe that’s why this is such a helpful exercise because it forces me to assess how I’m doing, to take note of my maternal triumphs, however modest they may be, and to focus on the positive.

Why not share (and celebrate) your small successes, too? Join other “successful” moms out there at Faith & Family Live!

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· February 12, 2009 · · Filed Under: Small Successes

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  1. kimberly says

    February 12, 2009 at 4:26 pm

    Eight months pregnant and 30 minutes of physical activity?? A day??

    Girl…you rock! That is no small success ;-D

    Blessings to you…

  2. Kris says

    February 12, 2009 at 6:31 pm

    Really!! I can’t get in 30 minutes of exercise and I am definitely not pregnant, and all my children are over the age of 4!! You totally rock!

  3. Cathy Adamkiewicz says

    February 12, 2009 at 7:06 pm

    You also took time out from your busy life to encourage a friend! That’s a big success.

  4. Tracy says

    February 12, 2009 at 11:15 pm

    these are huge!!! #2 most especially–it is hard for me to ask for help also, but you did and with #3 on the way–people are most blessed when they can help so take them up on it and let them receive the blessing that comes with helping!! God Bless!

  5. Modern Catholic Mom says

    February 13, 2009 at 1:38 am

    great job this week, mass with 2 little one’s and exercise I think you have a lot to be proud of.
    Ellen

Hi, I’m Kate

I’m a wife, mom of five kids, writer, speaker, storyteller, bibliophile, runner, eating disorder survivor, and perfectionist in recovery. I'm the author of Getting Past Perfect: Finding Joy & Grace in the Messiness of Motherhood  and Weightless: Making Peace With Your Body.

I’ve tried a lot of things in my life – anorexia, bulimia, law school, teaching aerobics, extended breastfeeding, vegetarianism, trying to be perfect and failing miserably at it – and through it all I’ve been writing. And learning to embrace the messiness of life instead of covering it up, making excuses for it, or being ashamed of my brokenness or my home’s sticky counters.

Nowadays I’m striving every single, imperfect day to strike a balance between keeping it real and keeping it joyful.

 

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―Flannery O'Connor

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