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I don’t normally use this space to ask for prayers, but I just learned that one of my dearest friends lost her baby girl this past weekend when her little one’s heart stopped beating. The doctors discovered a severe knot in the umbilical cord that likely tightened as she grew. My friend was 36 weeks along and had to have a c-section on Sunday.

The last time I saw my dear friend she was a glowing beauty, blooming with life as we celebrated her sweet baby girl at her shower. (This was her first pregnancy.) Now she is a mourning mom. I’m in shock, aching with sadness, and feeling hollowed out, so I cannot imagine the emotions she must be feeling right now.

Please pray for my friend, her husband (also a very close friend), and the rest of their family. So many people loved and will always love this sweet angel…

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· June 30, 2009 · · Filed Under: Prayer Requests

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  1. Betty Beguiles says

    June 30, 2009 at 6:55 pm

    That is absolutely heartbreaking. They will be in my prayers.

  2. Catholic Mommy Brain says

    June 30, 2009 at 7:45 pm

    Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to thy protection, implored thy help, or sought thine intercession was left unaided.

    Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto thee, O Virgin of virgins, my mother; to thee do I come, before thee I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in thy mercy hear and answer me.

    Amen.

    Our Lady, Queen of Peace, pray for this family.

  3. Rachel says

    June 30, 2009 at 8:37 pm

    I'm praying Kate!

  4. House of Brungardt says

    June 30, 2009 at 9:33 pm

    Oh, so terribly sad. That just makes my heart ache. I will pray for them.

    If you google Morning Light Ministry(ministers to Catholics with miscarriage, stillbirth, and early infant loss) they have some wonderful mementoes parents can ask for. Also google the Elizabeth Ministry. They have an online store with burial/funeral items for Miscarriage/Stillbirth and other meaningful things.

    May God grant your friend and her family some consolation in the midst of this trial.
    Janet

  5. ViolinMama says

    June 30, 2009 at 10:45 pm

    I am truly heartbroken. There are no words…I'm lost and I'm not even her mother……I prayed along with Catholic Mommy Brain….

    Do they need meals? I'm praying for them. Oh my heart…

    Mary and God know their pain all too well. I know they are holding them now.

    Oh Kate…

  6. Shauna Okongo says

    June 30, 2009 at 11:27 pm

    Oh my goodness Kate. I am so sorry for her loss. I cannot imagine the heartache she is feeling these days. My prayers are going up for her and her family, and also for you as you minister healing words to her. Peace to you all.
    Love,
    Shauna

  7. Aussie Therese says

    July 1, 2009 at 12:09 am

    Oh Kate,

    That is awful. I will certainly pray for your friend and her husband.

  8. Donna-Marie Cooper O'Boyle says

    July 1, 2009 at 11:32 pm

    Oh, my gosh, this is so heart-breaking. I'm so sorry. Thank you for sharing it so that we can all pray.

    May our dear Lord and His Blessed Mother watch over this family and bring them comfort during this most sorrowful time.

  9. Aubrey says

    July 2, 2009 at 1:21 am

    We will pray hard for this little family. I cannot imagine the pain they must be feeling. May God give them peace. +

  10. Karen E. says

    July 3, 2009 at 5:18 pm

    Oh, Kate, I'm so sorry. My hearts breaks for them. They'll be in my prayers.

  11. American History says

    July 10, 2009 at 12:35 pm

    Sad!!! Keeping her in our prayers. We lit a candle at the Church of the Holy Sepulcher thanks to http://holylandprayer.net. God bless.

Hi, I’m Kate

I’m a wife, mom of five kids, writer, speaker, storyteller, bibliophile, runner, eating disorder survivor, and perfectionist in recovery. I'm the author of Getting Past Perfect: Finding Joy & Grace in the Messiness of Motherhood  and Weightless: Making Peace With Your Body.

I’ve tried a lot of things in my life – anorexia, bulimia, law school, teaching aerobics, extended breastfeeding, vegetarianism, trying to be perfect and failing miserably at it – and through it all I’ve been writing. And learning to embrace the messiness of life instead of covering it up, making excuses for it, or being ashamed of my brokenness or my home’s sticky counters.

Nowadays I’m striving every single, imperfect day to strike a balance between keeping it real and keeping it joyful.

 

“She could never be a saint, but she thought she could be a martyr if they killed her quick.”

―Flannery O'Connor

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