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Daddy, M.D.

2-year-old, noticing Daddy is in a white coat rather than just scrubs one morning: Is Daddy ‘weally’ a doctor?

Me: Yes.

2-year-old: Why you a doctor, Daddy?

Daddy: What else should I be?

2-year-old: A daddy. (Like duh.)

To patients and his colleagues, my husband may be a radiologist, someone who interprets images to help make diagnoses, a highly trained professional with almost nine years of medical education (not that I’m counting) under his belt who sees things differently.

Rachel sees things differently, too. She thinks the white coat is funny. She could care less about the initials behind his name. She doesn’t think a pager equates to power or prestige. It’s a distraction instead. Its beeping not only takes the doctor away – it takes her daddy away.

Pay attention to the man in the white coat. In his daughters’ eyes, he will always be a daddy first.

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· December 5, 2009 · Tagged With: Medical Marriage · Filed Under: Child 2

Comments

  1. Colleen says

    December 5, 2009 at 11:51 pm

    Beautiful. Thanks.

  2. *Jess* says

    December 6, 2009 at 2:15 pm

    isn't it so nice that he's done with schooling!!

  3. Kate Wicker @ Momopoly says

    December 7, 2009 at 2:28 am

    He's not quite finished. :) About six more months of residency! (Again, not that I'm counting or anything.)

Hi, I’m Kate

I’m a wife, mom of five kids, writer, speaker, storyteller, bibliophile, runner, eating disorder survivor, and perfectionist in recovery. I'm the author of Getting Past Perfect: Finding Joy & Grace in the Messiness of Motherhood  and Weightless: Making Peace With Your Body.

I’ve tried a lot of things in my life – anorexia, bulimia, law school, teaching aerobics, extended breastfeeding, vegetarianism, trying to be perfect and failing miserably at it – and through it all I’ve been writing. And learning to embrace the messiness of life instead of covering it up, making excuses for it, or being ashamed of my brokenness or my home’s sticky counters.

Nowadays I’m striving every single, imperfect day to strike a balance between keeping it real and keeping it joyful.

 

“She could never be a saint, but she thought she could be a martyr if they killed her quick.”

―Flannery O'Connor

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