Kate Wicker

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What a Year!

2009 has been a year of many blessings.

There was this sweet baby.

Oh, and then news of a family members reversion and a calling.

Then there’s my husband’s new job. That’s right! After nine years of medical training, my husband will be earning R.D. degree – as in real doctor (I did not coin this phrase; Lisa Hendey of Catholic Mom is the one who recently congratulated my husband on his R.D. degree). Forget the M.D. Sure, it was exciting for my husband to graduate medical school, but there was so much left to learn. There still is. He’ll never stop learning. But on July 1st, he’ll be a resident no longer. Woo-hoo!!!

This spring, we’ll be putting our townhome on the market. Then we’ll be gearing up to move from the chaos of the city (no more heinous Atlanta traffic!) to a more bucolic kind of town (we’ll have a yard! Our own yard!!!!). Best of all, our new town isn’t far from extended family.

When my husband began the job search, he kept hearing how tight the market was. I worried. He didn’t.

Then people said doomsday kind of things about how he won’t be able to take care of patients the way he wants because of Uncle Sam. I worried. He didn’t. In fact, I once asked him what all the doctors he knew were saying about all of the health care hoopla. “We’re too busy taking care of patients to talk about it,” he said simply.

In this tough market, he was offered some amazing jobs (a testament to the years of hard work he has invested) – some far, far, far away from our extended family. I worried about making the right decision. He didn’t. “You can’t put a price tag on being close to family.”

He’s like Yoda, except he’s over six feet tall and doesn’t speak in strange syntax. But the no-frills-kind-of-wisdom is definitely there.

He gives great gifts, too, like this (much better than the Force). “So you can write that book of yours at coffee shops.”

I am one lucky woman.

Have I mentioned I’m writing a book? I mean, officially. I received a signed contract one week before Christmas.

The blessings are just too many. There’s no need to count them. They’re everywhere.

My dad’s license plate on his car has three simple letters: TYG. I’m sure people think those are his initials. They aren’t. My dad is driving around a gratitude-mobile. TYG stands for “Thank You, God.”

Perhaps I should tattoo myself with TYG to say thanks for my life’s bounty. Then again, maybe I’ll just show my gratitude by ceasing to worry and to simply put my trust in my husband and God as we forge forward and face all of the exciting changes ahead of us.

2009 has been a great year indeed. I can hardly wait for 2010.

Happy New Year!

Thank you God for my many gifts. Help me to never stop showing my gratitude even when things aren’t so rosy. May I learn to always set my eyes on the light at the end of the tunnel no matter how dark it may seem at times. TYG!

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· December 31, 2009 · Tagged With: Gratitude, Medical Marriage, Writing · Filed Under: Prayers

Comments

  1. Kris says

    December 31, 2009 at 8:40 pm

    Nice computer. Can't wait for the book!! Hate that you're moving. Glad it's not TOO far away…..!! Hope that hated Atlanta traffic doesn't keep you from us very often.

  2. Maggie says

    December 31, 2009 at 10:02 pm

    Wow! God is so great! Congrats on all the wonderful things happening in you and your family's life! I can't wait to read that book- I know it will be amazing! (I've practically read all your blog posts- a benefit of being unemployed!) Happy New Year!

  3. Angela says

    January 1, 2010 at 1:47 am

    Sounds like you've had a wonderful year! Thanks be to God!! Happy New Year!

  4. Aussie Therese says

    January 1, 2010 at 9:12 am

    some great reflection from 2009 Kate.

    2010 is going to be a great year.

    Only 5 weeks till our baby is due now so the children are counting down. I am too.

  5. *Jess* says

    January 1, 2010 at 1:31 pm

    OH MY GOODNESS! Katie, you dreams are coming true!! You are writing the book you've always wanted! I am SO proud of you, girl!!!

    (and we need to get together before you move. What are you up to MLK weekend? I'll be in Tucker!)

  6. Catholic Mommy Brain says

    January 2, 2010 at 8:48 pm

    A book!!!!!!!!!!!! I can't wait! Congrats Kate!! Thank God for His providence.

  7. Jessica says

    January 2, 2010 at 10:43 pm

    I'm so curious about where you're moving too! I can't wait to read your book! I would like my copy signed by the author please! :)

  8. Kate Wicker @ Momopoly says

    January 3, 2010 at 3:03 pm

    I count all of you as blessings, too. Thank you for all the encouraging words and warm wishes.

    Happy 2010!

  9. House of Brungardt says

    January 5, 2010 at 7:28 pm

    Congratulations to your family on your husband soon finishing his residency and finding a job in a good location! The moving part, with kids, won't be so much fun. :)

    And congrats on the book contract. That must be exciting!

Hi, I’m Kate

I’m a wife, mom of five kids, writer, speaker, storyteller, bibliophile, runner, eating disorder survivor, and perfectionist in recovery. I'm the author of Getting Past Perfect: Finding Joy & Grace in the Messiness of Motherhood  and Weightless: Making Peace With Your Body.

I’ve tried a lot of things in my life – anorexia, bulimia, law school, teaching aerobics, extended breastfeeding, vegetarianism, trying to be perfect and failing miserably at it – and through it all I’ve been writing. And learning to embrace the messiness of life instead of covering it up, making excuses for it, or being ashamed of my brokenness or my home’s sticky counters.

Nowadays I’m striving every single, imperfect day to strike a balance between keeping it real and keeping it joyful.

 

“She could never be a saint, but she thought she could be a martyr if they killed her quick.”

―Flannery O'Connor

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