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Let Sleeping Moms Lie

The Christmas season has been great but busy. I’m craving order and a restored rhthym to our days. And more hours spent in REM would be nice, too, because I’m feeling a lot like this right about now (not like the blurry-in-motion toddler but like the passed out babe):

 

I had to chuckle when I read this post on co-sleeping. Just because you embrace what’s known as a family bed doesn’t mean you’re all dreamy and cozy. Sometimes I find a pinkie toe precariously close to snaking its way up my nose. Or I hear the gnashing of teeth (anyone else have a teeth grinder out there?).

Just recently, my toddler has been waking up in the middle of the night, crying because she can’t find her elephant lovey in the sea of covers on our bed.

“Mommy’s right here,” I remind her.

“I want elephant,” she sobs.

It’s nice to feel so needed, especially when the clock says it’s 2 a.m.

Maybe I should have considered asking for a sound-proof mom cave to crawl into when the bed gets really crowded and noisy. Forget the MacBook Air, Honey. Just give me a silent night.

Due to my pathetically low energy levels and caring for a congested, sniffling baby and an elephant-seeking toddler all nightlong, I’m going to focus on catching up on sleep this week in lieu of writing pensive posts about making resolutions and/or reflecting on lessons learned in 2009. Besides there is plenty of really good stuff out there from other folks whose brains amount to more than gray sludge.

To name a few standout New Year-ish posts:

Five Steps to Real Change in the New Year

Greeting the New Year: Same Old Story

Love is My Only Resolution

Now

Predictions for 2010

resolved.reneged. resigned?

Thoughts on a New Year

What’s the Word?


2009 Was Fine

Seven Life-Changing Lessons I Learned in 2009

10 Questions to Encourage Engaged Parenting in 2010

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· January 4, 2010 · Tagged With: Sleep (Or Lack Thereof) · Filed Under: Goals, Kate's Blog

Comments

  1. ViolinMama says

    January 4, 2010 at 3:27 pm

    From another momma not sleeping…yes…SLEEP this week! Much love!!! Love your sentences and pic. So cute! Look at that flash of energy!

  2. Colleen says

    January 4, 2010 at 4:06 pm

    Wishing you a restful new year! Have you tried sleeping with a sound machine on to cover up all the little noises during the night?

  3. *Jess* says

    January 4, 2010 at 10:53 pm

    go get some rest, girl :)

  4. Kate Wicker @ Momopoly says

    January 6, 2010 at 4:07 pm

    Colleen, thanks for the tip. We do have a sound machine in every room. Our upstairs sounds like one, big white noise concert! :)

    The teeth grinding is really bothersome. My 2-year-old starts out sleeping with my 5-year-old, but always ends up wedged between my husband and me. I've just noticed the grinding, and it's LOUD! It can't be good for her teeth or jaw. Anyone have any experience with this?

    I'm also have trouble with the baby. She used to sleep with me from the get-go, but starting at 7 mos. we start her off in the crib. She wakes up around 10 p.m. (goes down at 7ish) and when I try to bring her in bed with me, she refuses to go to sleep. I'd like to have her close since she's still nursing a few times at night, but it's exhausting having her want to play.

    Tips anyone?

Hi, I’m Kate

I’m a wife, mom of five kids, writer, speaker, storyteller, bibliophile, runner, eating disorder survivor, and perfectionist in recovery. I'm the author of Getting Past Perfect: Finding Joy & Grace in the Messiness of Motherhood  and Weightless: Making Peace With Your Body.

I’ve tried a lot of things in my life – anorexia, bulimia, law school, teaching aerobics, extended breastfeeding, vegetarianism, trying to be perfect and failing miserably at it – and through it all I’ve been writing. And learning to embrace the messiness of life instead of covering it up, making excuses for it, or being ashamed of my brokenness or my home’s sticky counters.

Nowadays I’m striving every single, imperfect day to strike a balance between keeping it real and keeping it joyful.

 

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―Flannery O'Connor

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