Kate Wicker

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Moms: Read This Now

Moms, I know you’re busy and crazy-tired, but please make time to read this.

Then go and be a wife to your husband and a mother to your children. Feel good about your industriousness in your home. Love God and your family first, and know you’re being a good steward of your time. You are doing enough. (Note to self: So are you, Katie! )

Let us all learn to say, “I’m sorry, but I can’t do that,” and to be content in being “just” a mom.

I’d like to write more, but you guessed it: “I’m sorry; I can’t do that.” Not now when a child is cuddled close to me and deserves her mom’s full attention. A child whom I should always see, not as a disruption, but as a reminder that I have been called to dedicate my life and my love to God and the family He has given me.

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· January 26, 2010 · Tagged With: Encouragement for Moms · Filed Under: Kate's Blog

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  1. Kris says

    January 27, 2010 at 2:12 pm

    I'm once again learning that lesson quickly as I'm facing my year of "single" parenting. Did it the other day when I told someone 'no, sorry, we can't be there". Didn't get a very nice response back, but was glad I did it anyway.

Hi, I’m Kate

I’m a wife, mom of five kids, writer, speaker, storyteller, bibliophile, runner, eating disorder survivor, and perfectionist in recovery. I'm the author of Getting Past Perfect: Finding Joy & Grace in the Messiness of Motherhood  and Weightless: Making Peace With Your Body.

I’ve tried a lot of things in my life – anorexia, bulimia, law school, teaching aerobics, extended breastfeeding, vegetarianism, trying to be perfect and failing miserably at it – and through it all I’ve been writing. And learning to embrace the messiness of life instead of covering it up, making excuses for it, or being ashamed of my brokenness or my home’s sticky counters.

Nowadays I’m striving every single, imperfect day to strike a balance between keeping it real and keeping it joyful.

 

“She could never be a saint, but she thought she could be a martyr if they killed her quick.”

―Flannery O'Connor

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