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Staying Organized & Beating the Winter Blues

I had the opportunity to chat with Lisa Hendey and Rachel Balducci recently for the Faith & Family Podcast. It was a small miracle really that I was able to spend an hour on the phone without any of my kids interrupting (except for the big furry one barking). Sweet Mary Elizabeth has not been herself lately. (I wouldn’t be myself either if I had to limp around in a cumbersome boot because of a fracture.) She’s wanted to spend a lot more time in my arms than what had become the norm, and she’s developed this new habit of screeching when she’s sad or frustrated or maybe when that leg of hers is hurting. We had a follow-up appointment, and they’ve decided to stick with the black boot rather than casting her leg. It’s amazing how quickly she’s predicted to fully heal. The physician’s assistant told me that if I had the same break in my leg, it would take about three months to heal. As for Mary, she should be as good as new in three weeks. Now the kind P.A. did smile and say that he understands that to a busy mom three weeks might feel like an eternity, but we’ll get through it. Our homeschooling schedule hasn’t been seamlessly unfolding lately, but we’re gathering for some reading and learning for at least a few hours almost every day. And that is enough. It has to be for now.

One of the topics we discussed during the podcast was how we stay organized and how we ensure there’s room for flexibility and as Rachel wisely mentioned room for the Holy Spirit to nudge us in the direction God wants us to go. As a mom to little ones, I’ve found that having a rhythm to our day as opposed to a rigid, militant schedule is far more fruitful. For example, over the summer we fell into the good habit of praying the Angelus every day. Did it happen at noon? Nope. We prayed it before lunch, which usually occurred anywhere between 11 a.m. and 12:15 p.m.  The time wasn’t as important as the habit.  I do share some of the ways I stay organized during the podcast being the anal chart-loving geek that I am, and both Rachel, as a busy mom of six,  and Lisa, a mom with two grown sons who’s been there done that, are always a font of wisdom and inspiration.

We also talked about how to fight against the winter blahs. The irony is Rachel and I both live in Georgia, and Lisa’s a California girl. My Northern friends, don’t laugh, but it’s been a tough winter for me. Now some of you may recall, I’m originally from Illinois, but I’ve firmly planted my roots in the South and after that recent wintry week of being holed in and dealing with an icy driveway, I decided I’m officially a Southern Belle convert.

I’ll stop rambling now. It was such a joy to talk to like-minded moms. I hope you’ll join us in the conversation. Click here to listen.

I hope to pop in here more next week, but I have several good reasons that I’ve been MIA lately.

Have a good weekend!

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· January 28, 2011 · Tagged With: Homemaking, Podcasts · Filed Under: Podcasts

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  1. claire says

    January 28, 2011 at 8:12 pm

    I'm so glad to hear that she doesn't need a cast!

  2. Kate Wicker @ Momopoly says

    January 28, 2011 at 8:29 pm

    Thank you, Claire. Kids are amazing! She's been such a handful today. I have to really be vigilant about her not breaking the other leg. She's all over the place, clomping around in her big boot! :-)

    Blessings!

  3. Roxane B. Salonen says

    January 29, 2011 at 4:17 am

    Kate, glad to know you're surviving winter. You would never make it up here in North Dakota. So, I'll suffer through it for you. :)

    Many blessings!

  4. Maman A Droit says

    January 30, 2011 at 9:55 pm

    I love that idea of having a rhythm rather than a schedule.

    And I'm so with you on the winter thing. I lived in California most of my childhood, so winter in the upper Midwest really gets me down. I hate feeling stuck inside for safety reasons. The weather forecast this week? Temps never above freezing, 6-12 inches of snow, 20-30mph winds. Blah.

Hi, I’m Kate

I’m a wife, mom of five kids, writer, speaker, storyteller, bibliophile, runner, eating disorder survivor, and perfectionist in recovery. I'm the author of Getting Past Perfect: Finding Joy & Grace in the Messiness of Motherhood  and Weightless: Making Peace With Your Body.

I’ve tried a lot of things in my life – anorexia, bulimia, law school, teaching aerobics, extended breastfeeding, vegetarianism, trying to be perfect and failing miserably at it – and through it all I’ve been writing. And learning to embrace the messiness of life instead of covering it up, making excuses for it, or being ashamed of my brokenness or my home’s sticky counters.

Nowadays I’m striving every single, imperfect day to strike a balance between keeping it real and keeping it joyful.

 

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―Flannery O'Connor

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