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Just a Personal Reminder

Back in January I made a wish/resolution for 2011 over at Inside Catholic. Lately the tedium of home life has been getting to me (think daunting laundry piles, constantly plying little tummies with snacks, and putting socks on wiggly feet over and over again), so I just feel like I need the reminder to do everything with love:

“My little ones may not be able to pour themselves a cup of milk (without flooding the counter) or quell their hyperactive, overtired moods all on their own, but they do have the uncanny ability to cipher when I’m doing something with love — or not. So my wish (resolution!) for 2011 is to embrace Saint Therese of Lisieux’s little way and to do every little thing — from spreading PB on bread to fishing a Lego out of my toddler’s mouth — with simple but very real love.”

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· February 17, 2011 · Tagged With: Motherhood · Filed Under: Kate's Blog

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  1. Melanie B says

    February 17, 2011 at 1:12 pm

    Thank you. A very good reminder.

  2. Abby says

    February 17, 2011 at 1:42 pm

    Thank you so much for the reminder – I needed it today. My nearly 21 mo. old toddler has decided it's high time she entered the "terrible twos", and as a first time mom, I'm finding myself losing my patience with her, *a lot*. Maybe if I can see her more the way that God sees us, and treat her accordingly, it will help.

  3. Kate Wicker @ Momopoly says

    February 17, 2011 at 5:20 pm

    I read the reminder this morning and then we had a rushed morning where we all felt out of sync and none of us showed much love. Thank God for grace and second chances. :-)

  4. Melanie B says

    February 17, 2011 at 5:31 pm

    Thank God for second chances indeed! We all have those days. I hope your afternoon goes more smoothly.

  5. 8littlearrows says

    February 18, 2011 at 12:59 am

    I think we all need a reminder like this. It's so easy for me to feel overwhelmed sometimes in the midst of all the chaos, and even question at times if it's all worth it, but the persective of every little nitty-gritty thing being done with love is the perfect one to adopt. And you're so right — they always pick up on it when we're not doing that. Thanks for the reminder.

  6. Monica @ Equipping Catholic Families says

    February 18, 2011 at 4:30 am

    Great reminder…great way to put St. Therese's example into practice in the life of a Mom.
    Has anyone read "I believe in Love" by Fr. d'Elbee? This could be my favourite book and it's based on the spirituality and example of St. Therese.

  7. Kate Wicker @ Momopoly says

    February 18, 2011 at 7:31 am

    Monica, I have not read "I Believe in Love," but it sounds like something I'd like to crack open. Thank you for the recommendation.

Hi, I’m Kate

I’m a wife, mom of five kids, writer, speaker, storyteller, bibliophile, runner, eating disorder survivor, and perfectionist in recovery. I'm the author of Getting Past Perfect: Finding Joy & Grace in the Messiness of Motherhood  and Weightless: Making Peace With Your Body.

I’ve tried a lot of things in my life – anorexia, bulimia, law school, teaching aerobics, extended breastfeeding, vegetarianism, trying to be perfect and failing miserably at it – and through it all I’ve been writing. And learning to embrace the messiness of life instead of covering it up, making excuses for it, or being ashamed of my brokenness or my home’s sticky counters.

Nowadays I’m striving every single, imperfect day to strike a balance between keeping it real and keeping it joyful.

 

“She could never be a saint, but she thought she could be a martyr if they killed her quick.”

―Flannery O'Connor

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