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Still Crazy After All These Years

…but not in Paul Simon’s wistful, lovesick kind of way.

I’m still crazy about you after all these years as I was when we were dating and staying up way, way, way past my bedtime talking on the phone for hours and hours. (What did we talk about?)

Love is the law of your life. This helps explain why you do marriage so well and why you’re such a great dad. It also helps explain why you spend your entire Sunday pressure washing our old fence so our charming (code for old) house will look at its best, why you patiently extricate toys from their plastic prisons on our kids’ birthdays, and assemble 2,235-part playhouses without one single complaint. It’s why you work so hard to provide for our family – and to take care of your patients. It’s why you give me a break even when you’re tired and probably pining for your own downtime. It’s why you make me so thankful today and every day that you are my husband, my best friend, my personal Mojito-maker (when I’m not pregnant), and my favorite comedian who makes me laugh before I have a chance to cry after a tough day.

For nine years now, you have given me all that I need, more than I ever wanted, and often far more than I deserve.

Thank you for being you, and thank you for loving me for me.

Happy anniversary!

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· May 25, 2011 · Tagged With: Letters, Marriage · Filed Under: Kate's Blog

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  1. Colleen says

    May 25, 2011 at 2:05 pm

    Awww, so sweet! Phil and I just celebrated our 9 Year Anniversary on May 17th :) And we are actually going out tonight to celebrate (dinner and a Steve Martin show!). Happy Anniversary!!

  2. Kristen @ St Monica's Bridge says

    May 25, 2011 at 3:08 pm

    Kate, I love this! Congrats (our ninth is next March!).
    Kristen
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  3. Jess says

    May 25, 2011 at 9:31 pm

    Happy Anniversary!! :)

    (you might want to swing by my blog sometime soon for some good news!)
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  4. Melanie B says

    May 25, 2011 at 9:51 pm

    Happy anniversary, Kate!
    Melanie B recently posted…Todays Impromptu Botany LessonMy Profile

  5. Therese says

    May 26, 2011 at 7:21 am

    So sweet Kate. Happy anniversary to you both.

  6. Kris Chatfield says

    May 26, 2011 at 7:48 pm

    Lucky girl! And lucky Dave!

  7. Christina says

    May 27, 2011 at 2:24 am

    Happy anniversary! What a beautiful and inspiring sentiment. May the two of you have many, many more years in front of you!
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  8. ViolinMama says

    May 31, 2011 at 1:07 am

    HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!!!!! Kris said it best, and I know God is smiling down on you guys pleased in how His plan is panning out. I love you dear friend!
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Hi, I’m Kate

I’m a wife, mom of five kids, writer, speaker, storyteller, bibliophile, runner, eating disorder survivor, and perfectionist in recovery. I'm the author of Getting Past Perfect: Finding Joy & Grace in the Messiness of Motherhood  and Weightless: Making Peace With Your Body.

I’ve tried a lot of things in my life – anorexia, bulimia, law school, teaching aerobics, extended breastfeeding, vegetarianism, trying to be perfect and failing miserably at it – and through it all I’ve been writing. And learning to embrace the messiness of life instead of covering it up, making excuses for it, or being ashamed of my brokenness or my home’s sticky counters.

Nowadays I’m striving every single, imperfect day to strike a balance between keeping it real and keeping it joyful.

 

“She could never be a saint, but she thought she could be a martyr if they killed her quick.”

―Flannery O'Connor

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