Kate Wicker

Storyteller & Speaker

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Declaring a Mommy Truce

I read this post (by way of Danielle Bean) at Arwen/Elizabeth, a beauty of a blog I just discovered and it inspired me to write this: I’m a card-carrying member of the Freak Mom Club. See, I nursed Madeline until she was 22 months and would have kept on nursing had I not been ableRead the whole post >>

· May 6, 2008 · Tagged With: Breastfeeding, Columns · Filed Under: Tales from the Trenches

Daddy’s Little Girl

A conversation last night: Madeline: When’s Daddy coming home tonight? Me: He’s not. He has to stay at the hospital. You won’t see him until the morning. Madeline [sadly]: But he’s my favorite person to sleep with.

· May 2, 2008 · Tagged With: Attachment Parenting · Filed Under: Tales from the Trenches

Disappointment

The girls and I had plans for a lovely springtime outing today, but you know the best laid plans of munchkins and moms often go awry…or something like that. The baby woke up feeling like a preheated oven as she burrowed into me. I don’t usually take temps – I live by the mantra thatRead the whole post >>

· April 24, 2008 · Tagged With: Columns, Lessons Kids Teach Me · Filed Under: Tales from the Trenches

What Makes a Perfect Saturday Morning

Early morning cuddles with a happy 10-month-old who can’t stop reaching for my face as I nurse her. Then, later, Cheerios being stuffed into the mouth of that same happy 10-month-old. A quiet house with the exception of happy squeals intermittently sounding off between mouthfuls of Cheerios and yogurt. A cup of coffee with milkRead the whole post >>

· April 19, 2008 · · Filed Under: Tales from the Trenches

Doctors Know Best

Doctors, not always moms, are wellsprings of sundry knowledge as these two recent exchanges between my 3-year-old and me illustrate: Madeline: OW! It hurts! [referring to a boo-boo that starts to sting while she’s eating pineapple chunks] Me: That’s because pineapple is a citrus fruit and they’re tangy and can make boo-boos sting. A briefRead the whole post >>

· April 17, 2008 · · Filed Under: Tales from the Trenches

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Hi, I’m Kate

I’m a wife, mom of five kids, writer, speaker, storyteller, bibliophile, runner, eating disorder survivor, and perfectionist in recovery. I'm the author of Getting Past Perfect: Finding Joy & Grace in the Messiness of Motherhood  and Weightless: Making Peace With Your Body.

I’ve tried a lot of things in my life – anorexia, bulimia, law school, teaching aerobics, extended breastfeeding, vegetarianism, trying to be perfect and failing miserably at it – and through it all I’ve been writing. And learning to embrace the messiness of life instead of covering it up, making excuses for it, or being ashamed of my brokenness or my home’s sticky counters.

Nowadays I’m striving every single, imperfect day to strike a balance between keeping it real and keeping it joyful.

 

“She could never be a saint, but she thought she could be a martyr if they killed her quick.”

―Flannery O'Connor

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