Kate Wicker

Storyteller & Speaker

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The masks we wear

My two oldest daughters recently had a chance to get all dressed up as well as flex their social muscles at their middle school masquerade dance. They both returned home with a glowing review of the event. It was Rachel’s first dance, and I was so happy it proved to be a positive experience. IRead the whole post >>

· November 21, 2018 · Tagged With: Body Image, Lessons My Kids Teach Me, Spiritual Growth · Filed Under: Kate's Blog

How to help sparkly child shine without them driving you to the brink of insanity

Sometimes I’ll look around a public place like a grocery store or an airport and I’ll see all these docile children, offering their sibling the last cookie in their snack bag or saying, “Yes, Mommy” when she asks them to hand over her iPhone where the child was quietly practicing her phonics. Meanwhile this isRead the whole post >>

· July 11, 2017 · Tagged With: Attachment Parenting, Encouragement for Moms, Lessons My Kids Teach Me, Love · Filed Under: Kate's Blog

Comic relief and hope in a “haze of TMI”

My kids have sensed that something big that is outside of them and outside of our home is going on right now. Not only is Mommy suddenly spending more time online again (tsk, tsk), but she and Daddy, she and the babysitter, she and her Gaba, she and her Nana, she and her brother, sheRead the whole post >>

· October 29, 2012 · Tagged With: Hope, Lessons My Kids Teach Me · Filed Under: Kate's Blog

Heaven

Heaven: Two little girls (missing only the big sister who went with Daddy to her matinee performance). A pile of books. A cocoon of covers. A quiet Saturday afternoon. Heaven – as simply and lovely as that. “Cozy,” said the 2-year-old. “Yes,” I agreed. I read. We cuddled. The big sisters put their small handsRead the whole post >>

· May 14, 2011 · Tagged With: Lessons My Kids Teach Me, Little Joys · Filed Under: Kate's Blog

New Life In Him

Despite broken bones, puffy eyes, and toddlers who are suddenly boycotting their naps, I’m on an Easter kick. We all should be. We are an Easter people. Besides, joy feels good. During my most recent spiritual direction session I was sharing how it’s not easy to dredge up dark bits from my past. My spiritualRead the whole post >>

· May 4, 2011 · Tagged With: Easter, Faith Inspiration, Gratitude, Lessons My Kids Teach Me, Little Joys, Nature Study · Filed Under: Kate's Blog

Hi, I’m Kate

I’m a wife, mom of five kids, writer, speaker, storyteller, bibliophile, runner, eating disorder survivor, and perfectionist in recovery. I'm the author of Getting Past Perfect: Finding Joy & Grace in the Messiness of Motherhood  and Weightless: Making Peace With Your Body.

I’ve tried a lot of things in my life – anorexia, bulimia, law school, teaching aerobics, extended breastfeeding, vegetarianism, trying to be perfect and failing miserably at it – and through it all I’ve been writing. And learning to embrace the messiness of life instead of covering it up, making excuses for it, or being ashamed of my brokenness or my home’s sticky counters.

Nowadays I’m striving every single, imperfect day to strike a balance between keeping it real and keeping it joyful.

 

“She could never be a saint, but she thought she could be a martyr if they killed her quick.”

―Flannery O'Connor

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