Kate Wicker

Storyteller & Speaker

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Embracing the now even when you’d rather not

I’ve always thought of “living in the moment” in terms of savoring life and all its vivid but easily overlooked beauty. The weight of “now” needed to be measured and felt when a new baby who would soon transform into a lanky, little girl was in my arms. Being fully present during the happy orRead the whole post >>

· August 16, 2012 · Tagged With: Poop, Suffering, Tough Days · Filed Under: Kate's Blog

A Good Friday Reflection

This hasn’t been the greatest Lent. That’s an understatement, actually.  In all honesty, I feel like an epic failure. I set the bar low, and I still couldn’t meet any of my spiritual goals. Yet in spite of me and my failings, Easter will come. In the face of my sins and my foibles, thereRead the whole post >>

· April 6, 2012 · Tagged With: Hope, Lent, Mary, Suffering, Tough Days · Filed Under: Kate's Blog

You’re Turning Into Your Mother

Recently, someone asked me how my mom does it – how she always seems to be filled with happiness instead of self-pity or fear when she grapples with so many health problems and chronic pain. “She’s a real stoic,” the person said. My mom would tell you she’s nothing of the sort. She would sayRead the whole post >>

· November 8, 2011 · Tagged With: Family, Spiritual Dryness, Suffering · Filed Under: Kate's Blog

7 Quick Takes: Dad-Fueled Sugar Binges, Summer Reading, Baby Gender Predictions, & More!

~1~ You know Daddy’s been doing the grocery shopping around here when this finds its way into your kitchen: That was not on my list. My kids may be starting to think this bed rest thing for mama isn’t so bad after all. ~2~ Well, from the guesses after this post, it looks like weRead the whole post >>

· July 8, 2011 · Tagged With: 7 Quick Takes, Bed Rest, Books, Gratitude, Pregnancy, Suffering · Filed Under: Kate's Blog

The Art of Losing

What I like about those digital pregnancy tests for dummies is that the result takes out any chance of guesswork or misinterpretation. Instead of squinting at the stick you just peed on and wondering if a second faint blue line is really going to appear or if that single line is going to turn intoRead the whole post >>

· October 1, 2010 · Tagged With: Miscarriage, Suffering, Tough Days, Trust · Filed Under: Kate's Blog

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Hi, I’m Kate

I’m a wife, mom of five kids, writer, speaker, storyteller, bibliophile, runner, eating disorder survivor, and perfectionist in recovery. I'm the author of Getting Past Perfect: Finding Joy & Grace in the Messiness of Motherhood  and Weightless: Making Peace With Your Body.

I’ve tried a lot of things in my life – anorexia, bulimia, law school, teaching aerobics, extended breastfeeding, vegetarianism, trying to be perfect and failing miserably at it – and through it all I’ve been writing. And learning to embrace the messiness of life instead of covering it up, making excuses for it, or being ashamed of my brokenness or my home’s sticky counters.

Nowadays I’m striving every single, imperfect day to strike a balance between keeping it real and keeping it joyful.

 

“She could never be a saint, but she thought she could be a martyr if they killed her quick.”

―Flannery O'Connor

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