Kate Wicker

Storyteller & Speaker

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Burnt to a Crisp

If I was on the verge of burning out a few months ago, then today I’m officially toast burnt to a crisp. Burnout is a very real thing. That is why, after saving a draft of this post for some time now, I’ve chosen to expose myself like this. I think most moms face burnoutRead the whole post >>

· September 2, 2009 · Tagged With: Burnout, Motherhood, Tough Days · Filed Under: Kate's Blog

Perspective

Sometimes I need a shift in perspective. When I’m on the verge of falling prey to self-pity, God often gives me in-your-face wakeup calls that say, “Hey, drama queen. Stop the pity party and take a good look at how incredibly lucky you are.” Like when I complain about only being able to kiss myRead the whole post >>

· July 1, 2009 · Tagged With: Spiritual Growth, Tough Days · Filed Under: Kate's Blog

Dairy Queen Relinquishes Throne

I’ve been trying to avoid it. I’ve been trying to convince myself there might be another way. But it’s time now. It’s time to say good-bye to all dairy products for 10 days to see if it helps my little one be more comfortable. Baby M.E. is still refluxing (it seemed to have improved forRead the whole post >>

· June 26, 2009 · Tagged With: Breastfeeding, Tough Days · Filed Under: Child 3, Photos

Shame on Me

My husband has been working long hours all week. He gets home around midnight just when my head hits the pillow after shushing and nursing the baby into a deep sleep. He plants a soft kiss on my cheek and then we say a quick goodnight, and that’s about it. Sigh. Our mornings have beenRead the whole post >>

· June 19, 2009 · Tagged With: Marriage, Medical Marriage, Tough Days · Filed Under: Kate's Blog

On the Eve of New Motherhood

Yes, I’m still a gestating machine, a freak of nature who can walk around “ripe” and ready to burst without any bursting for a month. I’m now 4 cm dilated and fully effaced. Baby’s head remains engaged. I’m also experiencing nausea again and have low blood pressure and dizziness, which my midwife thinks is theRead the whole post >>

· March 30, 2009 · Tagged With: Pregnancy, Tough Days · Filed Under: Kate's Blog

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Hi, I’m Kate

I’m a wife, mom of five kids, writer, speaker, storyteller, bibliophile, runner, eating disorder survivor, and perfectionist in recovery. I'm the author of Getting Past Perfect: Finding Joy & Grace in the Messiness of Motherhood  and Weightless: Making Peace With Your Body.

I’ve tried a lot of things in my life – anorexia, bulimia, law school, teaching aerobics, extended breastfeeding, vegetarianism, trying to be perfect and failing miserably at it – and through it all I’ve been writing. And learning to embrace the messiness of life instead of covering it up, making excuses for it, or being ashamed of my brokenness or my home’s sticky counters.

Nowadays I’m striving every single, imperfect day to strike a balance between keeping it real and keeping it joyful.

 

“She could never be a saint, but she thought she could be a martyr if they killed her quick.”

―Flannery O'Connor

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