Kate Wicker

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Watch Your Tone, Mom

Setting: A brisk day in Georgia. The sky is a steely gray. We’re driving along on our way to run some boring errands when we find ourselves stuck behind a big, crawling truck.

Preschooler: This truck in really slowing us down.

Me: Good observation, Madeline, good observation.

I don’t mean to sound facetious. Really I don’t. The truck is slowing us down, in fact. But it comes out wrong all the same.

Preschooler: Don’t patronize me, Mommy.

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· November 13, 2008 · · Filed Under: Child 1, Tales from the Trenches

Comments

  1. *Jess* says

    November 13, 2008 at 7:05 pm

    Only a writer’s preschooler would know the big word of patronize!!! She cracks me up! Love the new blog layout :)

  2. Sarah Reinhard says

    November 13, 2008 at 10:35 pm

    That’s a big thumbs up, the use of patronize at age 4. Good thing you’ve captured it here to remember! :)

Hi, I’m Kate

I’m a wife, mom of five kids, writer, speaker, storyteller, bibliophile, runner, eating disorder survivor, and perfectionist in recovery. I'm the author of Getting Past Perfect: Finding Joy & Grace in the Messiness of Motherhood  and Weightless: Making Peace With Your Body.

I’ve tried a lot of things in my life – anorexia, bulimia, law school, teaching aerobics, extended breastfeeding, vegetarianism, trying to be perfect and failing miserably at it – and through it all I’ve been writing. And learning to embrace the messiness of life instead of covering it up, making excuses for it, or being ashamed of my brokenness or my home’s sticky counters.

Nowadays I’m striving every single, imperfect day to strike a balance between keeping it real and keeping it joyful.

 

“She could never be a saint, but she thought she could be a martyr if they killed her quick.”

―Flannery O'Connor

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