Kate Wicker

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Small Successess (Vol. 2)

This has been one of those weeks where I’ve really had to focus on my small – make that minuscule – successes. Otherwise, I’d feel like a complete failure. But enough of this self-flagellation. I’m supposed to celebrating my triumphs!

1. After getting less than four hours of sleep on Tuesday evening, I was able to function at almost full operating capacity the next day. I played with the girls, organized some homeschooling stuff, and never lost my cool. I did have to take one mom time-out that involved a quick retreat to my bedroom, some sniffling into a pillow, and me asking (begging is more like it) for God’s help. I left my room feeling much better and returned to the trenches.

2. I oversaw Valentine card production that resulted in 16 homemade Valentines for grandparents, godparents, and some other friends of the family. What’s more, I resisted the urge to micromanage Madeline’s artistic pursuits and just looked away when she got a little crazy with glue, gemstones, and stickers. They are 100 percent hers. That makes her and her control freak mommy proud.

3. I was approached with a request that I was really tempted to say yes to (because it would feed my ego and bank account), but I paused before responding, knowing that I already am juggling a lot right now and surrendered my heart, mind, and will to the Holy Spirit. Then I graciously said no, and I’m at peace with that.

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· January 29, 2009 · · Filed Under: Small Successes

Comments

  1. Marianne says

    January 29, 2009 at 6:46 pm

    It can be so hard to remember that we need time-outs too.
    Hope you get some sleep!

  2. Mau says

    January 29, 2009 at 7:45 pm

    It is so nice to know I am not the only mom in the world that might retreat to my room for a couple sniffles into my pillow :-)

Hi, I’m Kate

I’m a wife, mom of five kids, writer, speaker, storyteller, bibliophile, runner, eating disorder survivor, and perfectionist in recovery. I'm the author of Getting Past Perfect: Finding Joy & Grace in the Messiness of Motherhood  and Weightless: Making Peace With Your Body.

I’ve tried a lot of things in my life – anorexia, bulimia, law school, teaching aerobics, extended breastfeeding, vegetarianism, trying to be perfect and failing miserably at it – and through it all I’ve been writing. And learning to embrace the messiness of life instead of covering it up, making excuses for it, or being ashamed of my brokenness or my home’s sticky counters.

Nowadays I’m striving every single, imperfect day to strike a balance between keeping it real and keeping it joyful.

 

“She could never be a saint, but she thought she could be a martyr if they killed her quick.”

―Flannery O'Connor

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