Kate Wicker

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Small Successess (Vol. 2)

This has been one of those weeks where I’ve really had to focus on my small – make that minuscule – successes. Otherwise, I’d feel like a complete failure. But enough of this self-flagellation. I’m supposed to celebrating my triumphs!

1. After getting less than four hours of sleep on Tuesday evening, I was able to function at almost full operating capacity the next day. I played with the girls, organized some homeschooling stuff, and never lost my cool. I did have to take one mom time-out that involved a quick retreat to my bedroom, some sniffling into a pillow, and me asking (begging is more like it) for God’s help. I left my room feeling much better and returned to the trenches.

2. I oversaw Valentine card production that resulted in 16 homemade Valentines for grandparents, godparents, and some other friends of the family. What’s more, I resisted the urge to micromanage Madeline’s artistic pursuits and just looked away when she got a little crazy with glue, gemstones, and stickers. They are 100 percent hers. That makes her and her control freak mommy proud.

3. I was approached with a request that I was really tempted to say yes to (because it would feed my ego and bank account), but I paused before responding, knowing that I already am juggling a lot right now and surrendered my heart, mind, and will to the Holy Spirit. Then I graciously said no, and I’m at peace with that.

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· January 29, 2009 · · Filed Under: Small Successes

Comments

  1. Marianne says

    January 29, 2009 at 6:46 pm

    It can be so hard to remember that we need time-outs too.
    Hope you get some sleep!

  2. Mau says

    January 29, 2009 at 7:45 pm

    It is so nice to know I am not the only mom in the world that might retreat to my room for a couple sniffles into my pillow :-)

Hi, I’m Kate

 

I'm the author of two nonfiction books Getting Past Perfect and Weightless, a storyteller*, overthinker, eating disorder survivor, mom of five, book junkie, socially awkward nerd as well as a speaker (so basically a walking and talking contradiction), and a perfectionist in recovery.

I am currently working towards my MFA in Fiction at Warren Wilson. Thank you to everyone who has read my drafts, offered feedback, and cheered me on. The writing life is often solitary, but I wouldn’t be here without a community of support.

 

*Imperfect motherhood story for Rabbit Box (no children will harmed in the telling of the story and Mom had permission to share this video)

*Some BODY to Love story for Rabbit Box

 

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