Kate Wicker

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Unconditional Love

I’m the nursing the baby in the soft light of morning while my 5-year-old stands close by, watching the two of us.

She reaches over and gently touches the sucking cheeks of her little sister. “She’s the most ‘beautifulest,’ cutest, most wonderful baby there ever was, isn’t she?”

After a brief pause, my older daughter crinkles her nose and says, “Except when she poops. Then she’s gross.”

I’m pretty sure she’s thinking of a recent diaper calamity that involved Mom busily writing Christmas thank you notes and being completely oblivious to a crawling, pooping baby, a leaky diaper, and stinky stains all over our living room carpet. It was the 5-year-old who discovered the crime scene and the guilty party happily clapping her poop-clad hands. And it was very gross.

“But,” my daughter adds, touching her sister again, “We love her anyway.”

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· February 8, 2010 · · Filed Under: Child 1, Child 3, Tales from the Trenches

Comments

  1. gamommy2two says

    February 8, 2010 at 12:26 pm

    So so so SOOOO sweet. I love it when my kids are sweet like that.

  2. Kris says

    February 8, 2010 at 1:41 pm

    I love it when 5 year olds have no filter!!

  3. ViolinMama says

    February 8, 2010 at 3:02 pm

    hehehe!!! YES!! TOO CUTE!!!!!

    I love when we moms can share the story with no filter – hehe!

    Blessings!

  4. Maggie says

    February 8, 2010 at 7:43 pm

    Thank you for sharing stories like these…. they make me even more excited to become a mommy!

Hi, I’m Kate

I’m a wife, mom of five kids, writer, speaker, storyteller, bibliophile, runner, eating disorder survivor, and perfectionist in recovery. I'm the author of Getting Past Perfect: Finding Joy & Grace in the Messiness of Motherhood  and Weightless: Making Peace With Your Body.

I’ve tried a lot of things in my life – anorexia, bulimia, law school, teaching aerobics, extended breastfeeding, vegetarianism, trying to be perfect and failing miserably at it – and through it all I’ve been writing. And learning to embrace the messiness of life instead of covering it up, making excuses for it, or being ashamed of my brokenness or my home’s sticky counters.

Nowadays I’m striving every single, imperfect day to strike a balance between keeping it real and keeping it joyful.

 

“She could never be a saint, but she thought she could be a martyr if they killed her quick.”

―Flannery O'Connor

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