Kate Wicker

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Unconditional Love

I’m the nursing the baby in the soft light of morning while my 5-year-old stands close by, watching the two of us.

She reaches over and gently touches the sucking cheeks of her little sister. “She’s the most ‘beautifulest,’ cutest, most wonderful baby there ever was, isn’t she?”

After a brief pause, my older daughter crinkles her nose and says, “Except when she poops. Then she’s gross.”

I’m pretty sure she’s thinking of a recent diaper calamity that involved Mom busily writing Christmas thank you notes and being completely oblivious to a crawling, pooping baby, a leaky diaper, and stinky stains all over our living room carpet. It was the 5-year-old who discovered the crime scene and the guilty party happily clapping her poop-clad hands. And it was very gross.

“But,” my daughter adds, touching her sister again, “We love her anyway.”

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· February 8, 2010 · · Filed Under: Child 1, Child 3, Tales from the Trenches

Comments

  1. gamommy2two says

    February 8, 2010 at 12:26 pm

    So so so SOOOO sweet. I love it when my kids are sweet like that.

  2. Kris says

    February 8, 2010 at 1:41 pm

    I love it when 5 year olds have no filter!!

  3. ViolinMama says

    February 8, 2010 at 3:02 pm

    hehehe!!! YES!! TOO CUTE!!!!!

    I love when we moms can share the story with no filter – hehe!

    Blessings!

  4. Maggie says

    February 8, 2010 at 7:43 pm

    Thank you for sharing stories like these…. they make me even more excited to become a mommy!

Hi, I’m Kate

 

I'm the author of two nonfiction books Getting Past Perfect and Weightless, a storyteller*, overthinker, eating disorder survivor, mom of five, book junkie, socially awkward nerd as well as a speaker (so basically a walking and talking contradiction), and a perfectionist in recovery.

I am currently working towards my MFA in Fiction at Warren Wilson. Thank you to everyone who has read my drafts, offered feedback, and cheered me on. The writing life is often solitary, but I wouldn’t be here without a community of support.

 

*Imperfect motherhood story for Rabbit Box (no children will harmed in the telling of the story and Mom had permission to share this video)

*Some BODY to Love story for Rabbit Box

 

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