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Name-Calling in a Home Dominated By X Chromosomes

3-year-old, sobbing with big tears trailing down her face: Maddy called me [gibberish I can’t make out].

Me: She called you what? Predator?

(Remember I grew up with only brothers.)

More wracking sobs…

3-year-old: No! She called me peasant girl!

Me: Peasant girl?

3-year-old: Yes. That’s not very nice.

I’ve heard worse.

 

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· March 29, 2011 · Tagged With: Mom Humor · Filed Under: Child 2

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  1. Melanie B says

    March 29, 2011 at 4:16 pm

    Wow yeah. I love what constitutes an insult to little girls.

  2. Amy Phoenix says

    March 29, 2011 at 8:07 pm

    Laughing to self… :) I remember being heart broken at about that age for being called a butter nose. Ha!

    We enjoy the Byron Katie, Tiger Is It True? for such name calling occasions. Puts the whole practice in perspective. :)

  3. *Jess* says

    March 30, 2011 at 1:44 am

    LOL!!! That made me smile!

  4. Michelle says

    March 30, 2011 at 11:44 am

    That's great! Of course, I get both the "peasant girl" name calling from the girls and the "predator" name calling from the boys. Some days, I feel my 9 year old spends half the day sobbing.

  5. Roger, Michelle, Jena and Lily says

    March 31, 2011 at 4:18 pm

    Having also grown up with brothers (and a host of boy cousins) I often find what upsets my little princesses funny. I can totally relate, right down to the incomprehensible sobs.

Hi, I’m Kate

I’m a wife, mom of five kids, writer, speaker, storyteller, bibliophile, runner, eating disorder survivor, and perfectionist in recovery. I'm the author of Getting Past Perfect: Finding Joy & Grace in the Messiness of Motherhood  and Weightless: Making Peace With Your Body.

I’ve tried a lot of things in my life – anorexia, bulimia, law school, teaching aerobics, extended breastfeeding, vegetarianism, trying to be perfect and failing miserably at it – and through it all I’ve been writing. And learning to embrace the messiness of life instead of covering it up, making excuses for it, or being ashamed of my brokenness or my home’s sticky counters.

Nowadays I’m striving every single, imperfect day to strike a balance between keeping it real and keeping it joyful.

 

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