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Name-Calling in a Home Dominated By X Chromosomes

3-year-old, sobbing with big tears trailing down her face: Maddy called me [gibberish I can’t make out].

Me: She called you what? Predator?

(Remember I grew up with only brothers.)

More wracking sobs…

3-year-old: No! She called me peasant girl!

Me: Peasant girl?

3-year-old: Yes. That’s not very nice.

I’ve heard worse.

 

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· March 29, 2011 · Tagged With: Mom Humor · Filed Under: Child 2

Comments

  1. Melanie B says

    March 29, 2011 at 4:16 pm

    Wow yeah. I love what constitutes an insult to little girls.

  2. Amy Phoenix says

    March 29, 2011 at 8:07 pm

    Laughing to self… :) I remember being heart broken at about that age for being called a butter nose. Ha!

    We enjoy the Byron Katie, Tiger Is It True? for such name calling occasions. Puts the whole practice in perspective. :)

  3. *Jess* says

    March 30, 2011 at 1:44 am

    LOL!!! That made me smile!

  4. Michelle says

    March 30, 2011 at 11:44 am

    That's great! Of course, I get both the "peasant girl" name calling from the girls and the "predator" name calling from the boys. Some days, I feel my 9 year old spends half the day sobbing.

  5. Roger, Michelle, Jena and Lily says

    March 31, 2011 at 4:18 pm

    Having also grown up with brothers (and a host of boy cousins) I often find what upsets my little princesses funny. I can totally relate, right down to the incomprehensible sobs.

Hi, I’m Kate

 

I'm the author of two nonfiction books Getting Past Perfect and Weightless, a storyteller*, overthinker, eating disorder survivor, mom of five, book junkie, socially awkward nerd as well as a speaker (so basically a walking and talking contradiction), and a perfectionist in recovery.

I am currently working towards my MFA in Fiction at Warren Wilson. Thank you to everyone who has read my drafts, offered feedback, and cheered me on. The writing life is often solitary, but I wouldn’t be here without a community of support.

 

*Imperfect motherhood story for Rabbit Box (no children will harmed in the telling of the story and Mom had permission to share this video)

*Some BODY to Love story for Rabbit Box

 

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