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The Feast Before the Famine

The girls and I have a tradition of splurging on sundaes on Fat Tuesday. We obviously do not take this indulgence lightly.

Yesterday’s binge

Do not judge me. It was Fat Tuesday, so you’re supposed to eat fattening things, right? It was also my birthday. (Guess how old young I am!) Oh, and I’m four months pregnant, and I was enjoying a relatively nausea-free day.

Plus, it was frozen yogurt. That’s healthier than ice cream, you know. And I topped it which dark chocolate chips (all those antioxidants) and walnuts (omega-3s!).

I do feel slightly licentious for sharing these images on Ash Wednesday when the fast has begun.

Speaking of which, I’m kicking off Lent with an Internet fast. I’ll still be checking email, but other than that I’m stepping away from the online world for a few days. I haven’t decided how long this fast will last, but I’m hoping it will be fruitful.

Lent is a time to open myself to Christ. Separating my own thoughts from His thoughts is challenging for someone like me even when there’s complete silence since I’m almost constantly in planning mode, which often means my attention span is only slightly better than that of a fly. Add the flood of tweets, Facebook updates, and the constant siren song of technology, and it’s hard enough to hear my own thoughts, let alone God’s.

During a recent mini retreat I had the opportunity to attend at my church, the leader began each reflection segment with a prayer that really helped me to still myself.  I’ve shared it below because I plan to keep it close during Lent. Perhaps it might help some of you to rest more in God during these 40 days as well. 

Be still and know that I am God.

Be still and know that I am.

Be still and know.

Be still.

Be.

I’ll be back in a few. Blessings!

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· March 9, 2011 · Tagged With: Celebrating the Liturgical Year, Lent · Filed Under: Lent, Prayers, Traditions

Comments

  1. Jen Ambrose says

    March 9, 2011 at 12:43 pm

    I'll miss your posts. I will not be unplugging because when I live this far from everyone, it's my lifeline!

  2. Colleen says

    March 9, 2011 at 1:18 pm

    Happy Birthday! I'm guessing you're the same age as me….32??

    P.S. My word verification is "Binge"! Seems appropriate!

  3. Bridget says

    March 9, 2011 at 1:44 pm

    Love that prayer!

  4. Kimberlee says

    March 10, 2011 at 2:04 am

    Happy Belated Birthday!!! May you have a blessed and fruitful Lent.

  5. mphc says

    March 12, 2011 at 9:20 pm

    I wish I had known this tradition earlier…. I mean before lent :) Have a good Lent- greetings from Germany, Nicole.

  6. Roxane B. Salonen says

    March 20, 2011 at 3:10 pm

    Kate, I've been missing you. Heading to your inbox soon, but wanted to say, I have always loved that Scripture passage, and love it laid out this way as well. :)

Hi, I’m Kate

 

I'm the author of two nonfiction books Getting Past Perfect and Weightless, a storyteller*, overthinker, eating disorder survivor, mom of five, book junkie, socially awkward nerd as well as a speaker (so basically a walking and talking contradiction), and a perfectionist in recovery.

I am currently working towards my MFA in Fiction at Warren Wilson. Thank you to everyone who has read my drafts, offered feedback, and cheered me on. The writing life is often solitary, but I wouldn’t be here without a community of support.

 

*Imperfect motherhood story for Rabbit Box (no children will harmed in the telling of the story and Mom had permission to share this video)

*Some BODY to Love story for Rabbit Box

 

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