Kate Wicker

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A place to sit and rest and remember

My husband was finally able to get in contact with the appropriate people, and we got permission to take one of our neighbor’s old chairs.

Not long after, the girls got crazy (and messy) with some paint and turned a plastic chair into a piece of legacy art.

Since our neighbor never married and died without leaving behind much family, my husband and I had talked about how it was a little sad that no one would be around to talk about him or to share some of his stories.

But we will. We’ll be a surrogate family for him. We’ll talk about the man who, not so long ago, occupied this chair before it was given a splash of color and the touch of love and who will forever occupy our hearts.

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· May 23, 2012 · Tagged With: Kids' Artwork, Love · Filed Under: Kate's Blog

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  1. Julie says

    May 23, 2012 at 8:24 am

    SO glad you were able to get one of his chairs! It is a wonderful memory for your family!

  2. Angela says

    May 23, 2012 at 9:38 am

    You just turned “sad” into “happy”…that chair delights :-). Do you know where you’ll put it?

  3. Kris says

    May 23, 2012 at 1:56 pm

    How lovely! I was thinking it would be nice to plant something perennial close to the spot where he used to sit.

  4. Claire says

    May 23, 2012 at 3:21 pm

    That’s awesome Kate! And what a great lesson for your kids.

  5. Jennifer says

    May 23, 2012 at 6:31 pm

    I’m delighted to hear this. The children made a lovely job of the chair. I’ll bet Mr Thomas is delighted.
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  6. Nancy says

    May 25, 2012 at 10:30 pm

    I love this!
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  7. cynthia says

    May 28, 2012 at 10:49 pm

    What a sweet tribute. A reminder of the impact we can make on each other in this life and celebrating it!
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Hi, I’m Kate

I’m a wife, mom of five kids, writer, speaker, storyteller, bibliophile, runner, eating disorder survivor, and perfectionist in recovery. I'm the author of Getting Past Perfect: Finding Joy & Grace in the Messiness of Motherhood  and Weightless: Making Peace With Your Body.

I’ve tried a lot of things in my life – anorexia, bulimia, law school, teaching aerobics, extended breastfeeding, vegetarianism, trying to be perfect and failing miserably at it – and through it all I’ve been writing. And learning to embrace the messiness of life instead of covering it up, making excuses for it, or being ashamed of my brokenness or my home’s sticky counters.

Nowadays I’m striving every single, imperfect day to strike a balance between keeping it real and keeping it joyful.

 

“She could never be a saint, but she thought she could be a martyr if they killed her quick.”

―Flannery O'Connor

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