Kate Wicker

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A {very} belated birthday letter to a {very} special girl

So we have a few summer birthdays around here, and Rachel’s came first and here I am just getting around to posting it. I did write it awhile back, but I had to get some photos together for it. One of my favorite parts of writing these annual birthday letters is perusing photos from theRead the whole post >>

· September 2, 2015 · Tagged With: Child 2, Glimpses Into Our Life, Letters · Filed Under: Kate's Blog

7th Heaven

Dear Rachel, Happy 7th birthday! As Madeline is fond of writing in kids’ birthday cards these days, seven is such a big number. Indeed it is. Where did our Baby Rae run off to? My sweet Rachel, you are growing into such a lovely, little lady. You just ran into my bedroom with a towerRead the whole post >>

· June 19, 2014 · Tagged With: Child 2, Letters · Filed Under: Kate's Blog

Out of the mouths of my babes (Vol. 1)

6-year-old Rachel as I was attempting to use the bathroom with an entourage in my midst: “I just realized something. Mommy never gets any alone time. I remember when I started school, and it was quiet and no one was talking, and I thought, ‘This is nice.’ I’d never had that before. Mommy, you stillRead the whole post >>

· March 21, 2014 · Tagged With: Child 1, Child 2, Child 3, Child 4, Mom Humor · Filed Under: Kate's Blog

To my “Rae” of sunshine…

Dear Rachel, My sweet, 6-year-old girl, happy, happy birthday! Last week you were blessed to spend a week in heaven – otherwise known as horse camp. When I picked you up one of the days, your instructor remarked, nodding in your direction, “This girl cracks me up. She’s always wanting to make sure she’s doingRead the whole post >>

· June 18, 2013 · Tagged With: Child 2, Letters · Filed Under: Kate's Blog

Love note

Yesterday I discovered this little love note on my desk: Translation: Dear Mommy, I love you. You don’t look old. — I’m quite convinced that my 5-year-old would surely have written something like, “you are radiant,” “you are beautiful,” or maybe even, “you are the fountain of splendid youth” if “radiant,” “beautiful,” and “fountain ofRead the whole post >>

· November 29, 2012 · Tagged With: Child 2, Mom Humor · Filed Under: Kate's Blog

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Hi, I’m Kate

I’m a wife, mom of five kids, writer, speaker, storyteller, bibliophile, runner, eating disorder survivor, and perfectionist in recovery. I'm the author of Getting Past Perfect: Finding Joy & Grace in the Messiness of Motherhood  and Weightless: Making Peace With Your Body.

I’ve tried a lot of things in my life – anorexia, bulimia, law school, teaching aerobics, extended breastfeeding, vegetarianism, trying to be perfect and failing miserably at it – and through it all I’ve been writing. And learning to embrace the messiness of life instead of covering it up, making excuses for it, or being ashamed of my brokenness or my home’s sticky counters.

Nowadays I’m striving every single, imperfect day to strike a balance between keeping it real and keeping it joyful.

 

“She could never be a saint, but she thought she could be a martyr if they killed her quick.”

―Flannery O'Connor

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