Kate Wicker

Storyteller & Speaker

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The Name Game

Madeline loves to name things. She named her handpicked pumpkin Elizabeth. She has a smorgasbord of imaginary friends (some are half-animal; others are simply little girls) that she thoughtfully branded as Feezy, Lassie, and Lucy (to name a few; I can’t keep up with all of her “friends.”). She’s also taken it upon herself toRead the whole post >>

· October 28, 2008 · Tagged With: Pregnancy · Filed Under: Child 1, Child 3

Empathy

The other day I found myself hovering over the toilet bowl for the third time in an hour. I threw up and sighed. Then a little hand gently patted my arm. “You sick again, Mommy?” my preschooler asked. “Yes. I’ll be okay.” She nodded, her hand still on my arm. “Don’t worry, Mommy,” she said.Read the whole post >>

· October 22, 2008 · · Filed Under: Child 1, Tales from the Trenches

A Mom’s Job Description According to a Preschooler

Madeline: Where’s my… Me, handing her her beloved tiger stuffed animal before she can finish saying, “Where’s my Raja?”: Here it is. Madeline: You knew I was going to ask for my Raja. Me: Yup. Madeline: Why? Me: That’s one of my jobs – to know things you need. Not to mention the fact thatRead the whole post >>

· October 14, 2008 · Tagged With: Mom Humor · Filed Under: Child 1, Tales from the Trenches

My Glass Ballerina

I recently signed Madeline up for a very laid-back ballet class at the Family Y. It’s nothing fancy and is focused on fun and movement. She seemed to really enjoy the first few classes, although I always chuckled when she told me she was the fastest runner in class. She was. The only problem wasRead the whole post >>

· September 30, 2008 · Tagged With: Tough Days · Filed Under: Child 1

A Mother’s Work is Never Done (Except When She’s in the Bathroom)

Big Sister: Mommy, you know what? Me: What? Big Sister: I can’t believe we’re gonna have another baby. Now I’ll have two babies to watch when you go poop. That’s going to be a lot of work. I confess. I sometimes ask my 3-year-old (she’s almost 4) to look after her little sister while IRead the whole post >>

· September 25, 2008 · Tagged With: Mom Humor · Filed Under: Child 1

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Hi, I’m Kate

I’m a wife, mom of five kids, writer, speaker, storyteller, bibliophile, runner, eating disorder survivor, and perfectionist in recovery. I'm the author of Getting Past Perfect: Finding Joy & Grace in the Messiness of Motherhood  and Weightless: Making Peace With Your Body.

I’ve tried a lot of things in my life – anorexia, bulimia, law school, teaching aerobics, extended breastfeeding, vegetarianism, trying to be perfect and failing miserably at it – and through it all I’ve been writing. And learning to embrace the messiness of life instead of covering it up, making excuses for it, or being ashamed of my brokenness or my home’s sticky counters.

Nowadays I’m striving every single, imperfect day to strike a balance between keeping it real and keeping it joyful.

 

“She could never be a saint, but she thought she could be a martyr if they killed her quick.”

―Flannery O'Connor

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