Kate Wicker

Storyteller & Speaker

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Watch Your Tone, Mom

Setting: A brisk day in Georgia. The sky is a steely gray. We’re driving along on our way to run some boring errands when we find ourselves stuck behind a big, crawling truck. Preschooler: This truck in really slowing us down. Me: Good observation, Madeline, good observation. I don’t mean to sound facetious. Really IRead the whole post >>

· November 13, 2008 · · Filed Under: Child 1, Tales from the Trenches

And You Think You’ve Got Problems…

Oh, the woes of a preschooler. Last night after her gaba and Ivy (Gaba and Papa’s yellow Lab) left to return home, Madeline started crying. “Mommy, I’m going to be so lonesome without Ivy and Gaba. Oh dear. Oh dear. It’s so lonely without Ivy.” Cough, cough. Sob, sob. Sniffle, sniffle. Big sob. “And myRead the whole post >>

· November 6, 2008 · · Filed Under: Child 1, Tales from the Trenches

Empathy

The other day I found myself hovering over the toilet bowl for the third time in an hour. I threw up and sighed. Then a little hand gently patted my arm. “You sick again, Mommy?” my preschooler asked. “Yes. I’ll be okay.” She nodded, her hand still on my arm. “Don’t worry, Mommy,” she said.Read the whole post >>

· October 22, 2008 · · Filed Under: Child 1, Tales from the Trenches

A Mom’s Job Description According to a Preschooler

Madeline: Where’s my… Me, handing her her beloved tiger stuffed animal before she can finish saying, “Where’s my Raja?”: Here it is. Madeline: You knew I was going to ask for my Raja. Me: Yup. Madeline: Why? Me: That’s one of my jobs – to know things you need. Not to mention the fact thatRead the whole post >>

· October 14, 2008 · Tagged With: Mom Humor · Filed Under: Child 1, Tales from the Trenches

Sisterly Love

Big Sister: Because I love Baby Rae so much I’m going to give her all my mushrooms and rice. The same mushrooms and rice Big Sister looked at with disgust only minutes earlier.

· September 9, 2008 · · Filed Under: Child 1, Tales from the Trenches

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Hi, I’m Kate

I’m a wife, mom of five kids, writer, speaker, storyteller, bibliophile, runner, eating disorder survivor, and perfectionist in recovery. I'm the author of Getting Past Perfect: Finding Joy & Grace in the Messiness of Motherhood  and Weightless: Making Peace With Your Body.

I’ve tried a lot of things in my life – anorexia, bulimia, law school, teaching aerobics, extended breastfeeding, vegetarianism, trying to be perfect and failing miserably at it – and through it all I’ve been writing. And learning to embrace the messiness of life instead of covering it up, making excuses for it, or being ashamed of my brokenness or my home’s sticky counters.

Nowadays I’m striving every single, imperfect day to strike a balance between keeping it real and keeping it joyful.

 

“She could never be a saint, but she thought she could be a martyr if they killed her quick.”

―Flannery O'Connor

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